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Heart of Dating


Where we unmask the world of dating with honest conversations, practical wisdom, and a whole heck of a lot of laughter.









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Meet Your Hosts

Kait & JJ Tomlin are both dating coaches, founders of our amazing 8-week intensive program, School of Dating, AND co-hosts of the Heart of Dating Podcast.

Together they help thousands of men and women on their journeys through the conversations on the Heart of Dating Podcast, which launched in 2018.

Through their ministry, Kait & JJ's mission is to empower both men and women to have the courage to own their story, walk in victory, thrive with purpose, and discover clarity and vision in their life and relationships.

Each week, we bring you compelling episodes and unique guests to talk about hard-hitting subjects.

We talk about debunking toxic purity culture, to how to make the first move and how to actually feel confident in your own skin, to spotting red flags and navigating online dating, and everything in between.

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Get ready to put yourself out there in an exciting new way, feel confident in who you are and what you have to offer, and finally overcome everything stopping you from enjoying this process!

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“Kait is so genuine and is overall an amazing woman! I know that every time I listen to her, she is real and not afraid to tackle hard subjects in relationships and life in general.”


“As a single man, this podcast is really so encouraging. Kait does such a great job encouraging both men and women in dating and giving practical advice”


“Heart of Dating has given me a new perspective into the dating world… Kait is in her 30s and still walking through it. She is raw and vulnerable and I feel like we are truly friends! This podcast has given me hope about being single and approaching 30.”


“As someone who grew up in the church I never knew how to date… I literally thought you just prayed a husband into existence and wait…. Thank you Kait for bringing truth into dating!”


“This podcast is so encouraging! It’s encouraging to hear single people describe the exact experiences you have endured, reminding you that you are NOT alone in your journey.”


“Singleness can be fun and a growing season and it feels like this is the community of singles I needed!”


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Dive Deeper with Heart of Dating on YouTube!

Experience the conversations, up close and personal.

Join us on our YouTube channel and immerse yourself in heartfelt discussions on dating, love, and relationships.

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In early 2018 Kait, started THIS Podcast that she hoped would encourage a healthy conversation around this difficult and somewhat murky subject of dating. God has made this journey thrive in ways we never saw coming!

JJ has joined the team as a co-host and is specifically passionate about calling men higher. We've added a men’s episode each week that we call Men Minisodes to serve our men more. We have added two amazing ladies to the Heart of Dating team who get the podcast out to YOU! So much has happened and changed and we're SO SO SO grateful! We have to be real though, running a podcast isn't cheap. SO! We’d love to invite you to join our exclusive community!! As we continue to grow it would be our dream to continue bringing you MORE- more video content, more episodes, a MEN’S ONLY PODCAST, and more!


Featured Guests!

We are thrilled and honored to host dynamic, deep-thinkers with rich stories and expert advice to talk about topics like chronic dating disappointment, navigating dating anxiety, and transforming the lies you believe about yourself and so much more!

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