your dating life.

The School of Dating

The 8-Week Program to completely refresh your dating life + get REAL dating results.

Build newfound clarity, emboldened confidence, and the ultimate dating skillset.

COMING NEXT SPRING!
TEXT WAITLIST to +1 (214) 225-7772

Real Talk.

Dating as a Christian Can Feel so Dang Complicated.

You dream of loving someone else deeply and being loved for who you are, BUT your head is spinning with questions and emotions that are getting replayed over and over in your head. Sound familiar? Maybe you have been feeling: 

Rejected, hopeless and like you’re running in circles with your dating life. 

Like you have little to zero dating prospects.

A lack of confidence in your dating life. 

That you are actively attracting and dating the wrong kind of people.

And perhaps the biggest thought of all:

How do I actually land a dream date that I’m actually EXCITED about?

All of this frustration is enough to make you question your dating life altogether. 

BUT… you know there is someone out there for you and you know giving up won’t help you find what you really desire. 

You’re ready to FINALLY land that dream date that could lead to a forever.

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Introducing The School of Dating.

We created this program to help you:

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Become the person God DESIRES you to be to be so you can ATTRACT the person that will be RIGHT for you.

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Feel RELAXED and CONFIDENT in dating and actually enjoy the process without seeing it as a waste of time.

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Know exactly WHERE and HOW to find QUALITY people to date

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Feel utterly confident in your ability to FLIRT and COMMUNICATE your wants and desires in dating.

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Find renewed JOY and EXCITEMENT in your dating life, while being thrilled with its success.

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Break the cycle of ANXIETY and OVER-ANALYZING and transform it into a newfound excitement about putting yourself out there.

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Learn true RESILIENCE in the face of rejection so it no longer holds you back.

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Have a CLEAR understanding of what the opposite sex wants and be able to attract the person you’re looking for.

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Implement the EXACT dating process that Kait used to go from dating to finding her forever love.

ENROLL today

"If you're asking me "what's holding me back?" "why can't I just date like every other person" "Why do I shut down on a first date", this program will help. You'll receive personal mentorship and coaching from JJ and Kait unlike anything you've experienced from them before! Whether you've never dated and you are ready to or you've dated the wrong way, this is for you. Come prepared to be stretched. Come prepared to learn and grow alongside of incredible community who loves you for EXACTLY where you are at in your journey. You're not behind. You're not lacking. If you're ready for a new mindset when it comes to dating, join SOD. "

Courtney

"I really feel like I unlocked newfound confidence in who I am, which was really cool since this was the first dating program I have ever done. The way I focus on my singleness is totally different and I completely rebuilt my definition of truly healthy dating and as well as putting myself out there."

Anonymous

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Hey, We’re Kait & JJ.

Kait’s a Dating Expert, National best-selling Author, Overacheiver, and Ex-Love-Addict.

She founded the Heart of Dating. A top 100 rated Christian Podcast turned empire of Christian dating. Today Heart of Dating reaches over 200 countries, helps men and women ages 18+ of all sorts of varying backgrounds, stories, and dating experiences, and brings together Christians singles in a tight knit, diverse, and compelling community.

Here’s the thing. We’ve seen it all when it comes to dating: nightmarish breakups, ghosting for days, people that turn out to be complete con-artists (including someone who tried to catfish us on dating apps). We’ve even dated people that seem ‘holier than thou’ but try to get into our pants on a first date. All.of.it.

Oh, and we should mention… we haven’t always been the Master daters ourselves. I’m sure plenty of people in our past would have some stories to tell about us, too. UNTIL we woke up to reality, broke the cycle, and transformed the way we were approaching dating. We invested in new friendships, sought out therapy (Lord knows I needed it), and have read just about every dating book on the planet.

And guess what? This led us to finally MEETING and getting MARRIED.

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I (Kait) used to jump RIGHT into the boat when I saw a guy who had the potential of being a great man for me. I’d immediately commit and often get deeply betrayed or hurt in the process. So I decided to throw my idea of “type” out the window and allow God to surprise me by doing a 3 month dating challenge in early 2021. I lived by the phrase “date the unexpected and God just may do the unexpected”.

I held dating loosely, approached it with more confidence and ease, and didn’t feel weighed down by pressure and expectations.

In this process I realized something: dating can get better. I went from loathing my dating life, to walking in my worth, feeling confident to make a move, letting go of unrealistic expectations, and finally dating with joy and integrity. 

I (JJ) had a bit of a different background with some similar themes! Even though I rarely took out girls, I definitely fell hard with gifts and flowers and wooing, so the sting of rejection was extra painful for me. On the flip side, because I hated having hard conversations and never led the relationship out of transparency and love, I learned the habit of over-analyzing, fearfully avoiding dating and even ghosting when not wanting to have a hard conversation! 

Between our different personalities and our unique dating histories, we’ve made just about every dating mistake in the book. Until we began to take responsibility, seek help, and learned to master our dating lives.

We’d love to walk right alongside you as you learn to do the same.

Here’s What We Will Cover in The School of Dating.

We want to equip you to MASTER your dating life. Through our unique journeys, we feel deeply called to walk alongside other singles to help you completely reconstruct your dating mindset, tool kit and experience from start to finish.

In this program you will leave with emboldened confidence, practical dating tools and a true transformation in the way you date. We have developed a 3-pronged pivot approach to dating that leads to REAL results.

Phase 1: Establish Clarity and Confidence in Dating

In the first part of the program, you will establish newfound clarity and confidence in yourself in your dating life.

Ever feel like part of your dating success is tied to how much YOU feel worthy of the person for you? Do you ever attach in love anxiously, avoidantly or even sporadically?

These huge pain points are incredibly common, but so hard to properly heal. We’re going to help you experience true inner healing and build new freedom in WHO you are. We firmly believe you must know your needs, wounds, and triggers in order to know what you actually NEED for you.

You will leave this part of the program with a renewed abundance of hope for dating and be READY to take the plunge in confidence.

Phase 2:  Elevate Your Dating Momentum

In the second part of our program, you will maximize your dating tool kit and how to GET OUT THERE and meet quality Christians….

Your comfort zone will definitely be pushed! But you will be amazed at how often and how many dates you get following our model (no more struggling with where to meet quality singles any more!).

We will also help you to take the plunge into Online and Social media dating with all of our strategic secrets to achieving actual success in these overwhelming worlds. You will deep dive and understand the feminine and masculine in dating, giving you the best flirting and communication tactics so you feel equipped to not only secure a date but also show up to a first date with ease and confidence.

You’re going to leave this section of the program having mastered the art of first dates, feeling far less weary about rejection, and WAY more satisfied with how many quality people you are meeting.

Phase 3: Get Real Dating Results

In the final phase, we’re not going to let you walk out of these 8 weeks without getting REAL DATING RESULTS.

What if you could ENJOY dating and actually have SUCCESS while doing it? We’re going to share our insider secrets to our most creative and meaningful date ideas that will make you feel connected and rediscover the FUN in dating.

You’ll also gain clarity on how to communicate and connect with your date throughout the process of dating. We will share our top LDR tips, in-person strategies and our system for managing expectations. Can you resonate with that feeling of liking someone and NOT knowing how to share your feelings without putting mounds of pressure on yourself or the other person? Together, we will solve it!

You will leave yourself equipped and able to discern what dating situations you should stay in and which you should leave, all the while leaving someone better than you found them.

Here’s What We Will Cover in The School of Dating.

We want to equip you to MASTER your dating life. Through our unique journeys, we feel deeply called to walk alongside other singles to help you completely reconstruct your dating mindset, tool kit and experience from start to finish.

In this program you will leave with emboldened confidence, practical dating tools and a true transformation in the way you date. We have developed a 3-pronged pivot approach to dating that leads to REAL results.

Phase 1: Establish Clarity and Confidence in Dating

In the first part of the program, you will establish newfound clarity and confidence in yourself in your dating life.

Ever feel like part of your dating success is tied to how much YOU feel worthy of the person for you? Do you ever attach in love anxiously, avoidantly or even sporadically?

These huge pain points are incredibly common, but so hard to properly heal. We’re going to help you experience true inner healing and build new freedom in WHO you are. We firmly believe you must know your needs, wounds, and triggers in order to know what you actually NEED for you.

You will leave this part of the program with a renewed abundance of hope for dating and be READY to take the plunge in confidence.

Phase 2:  Elevate Your Dating Momentum

In the second part of our program, you will maximize your dating tool kit and how to GET OUT THERE and meet quality Christians….

Your comfort zone will definitely be pushed! But you will be amazed at how often and how many dates you get following our model (no more struggling with where to meet quality singles any more!).

We will also help you to take the plunge into Online and Social media dating with all of our strategic secrets to achieving actual success in these overwhelming worlds. You will deep dive and understand the feminine and masculine in dating, giving you the best flirting and communication tactics so you feel equipped to not only secure a date but also show up to a first date with ease and confidence.

You’re going to leave this section of the program having mastered the art of first dates, feeling far less weary about rejection, and WAY more satisfied with how many quality people you are meeting.

Phase 3: Get Real Dating Results

In the final phase, we’re not going to let you walk out of these 8 weeks without getting REAL DATING RESULTS.

What if you could ENJOY dating and actually have SUCCESS while doing it? We’re going to share our insider secrets to our most creative and meaningful date ideas that will make you feel connected and rediscover the FUN in dating.

You’ll also gain clarity on how to communicate and connect with your date throughout the process of dating. We will share our top LDR tips, in-person strategies and our system for managing expectations. Can you resonate with that feeling of liking someone and NOT knowing how to share your feelings without putting mounds of pressure on yourself or the other person? Together, we will solve it!

You will leave yourself equipped and able to discern what dating situations you should stay in and which you should leave, all the while leaving someone better than you found them.

"I feel SO empowered. I'm ready to let go and LOVE my singleness for the FIRST time!! I've got a new understanding of my value and my worth when it comes to my relationship status! I finally was able to lay the fear of not meeting this "society-based" milestone of being engaged or married by a certain point guiding my life any longer. It's time to start living my life to the fullest, conquering dreams, and building HIS kingdom regardless of my singleness!

Kayla

"Heart of Dating has given me new perspective into the dating world. So many different views and experiences! And I love that a young married person isn’t preaching to us about how “singleness is a gift.” It is a gift. She is raw and vulnerable and I feel like we are truly friends!!"

Taylor

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It’s Time to Implement a PROVEN System to Refresh Your Dating Life + Get REAL Dating Results.

Here’s What You Will Get In This High Touch Program With Kait + JJ:

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16, 2 Hour small group teaching and Q&A Zoom Sessions (2 PER WEEK for 8 weeks) (VALUE: $4000).

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A Physical Workbook to keep you accountable, stay on track and have afterwards to get the results you’re desiring in dating (VALUE: $500).

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WEEKLY Texts from Kait and JJ to keep you motivated on your journey (VALUE: $397).

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Accountability & Community Support System (VALUE: $500).

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Let's go

Payment Details & Payment Options

6 payments

$299

/month

Next Enrollment Coming Spring 2023

COMING NEXT SPRING 2023

Pay In Full

$1497

Next Enrollment Coming Spring 2023

TEXT WAITLIST to +1 (214) 225-7772 to be the first to know

3 payments

$548

/month

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+1 (214) 225-7772

We Know You are Serious About Refreshing Your Dating Life + Getting Real Results.

That’s why we got EXTRA serious about the dating tools we are giving to YOU.
Here’s The Bonuses You’ll Get When You Join The School Of Dating

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Your Guide to the Best Questions to Ask on a Date

Do you get nervous about what to say and ask on a date? Fear no more with this SOS question guide that will help you have real, intentional, connected conversations.

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Texting Scripts

Do you find that your dating prospects fizzle out because of poor conversation? We will give you our tricks to keep the conversation alive and exciting

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Creative and Connected Date Ideas Manual

AMAZING and CREATIVE date ideas that will increase connection and in turn success of your dating journey.

Training SessionS with EXPERTS AND MASTER DATING COACHES

Multiple BONUS training sessions with trained experts (to be announced)

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DATING JOURNAL

The clear roadmap on how to meet singles and process all emotions and feelings following a date.

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The Ultimate Online Dating Profile Setup Guide

The EXACT photos to post to attract the quality person you are looking for (no more fish photos!)

"SOD has transformed my heart when it comes to personal growth and outlook towards dating and empowered me to step into my God given identity.  The biblical concepts and practical steps for approaching being single and stepping into dating with a healthy outlook from a spiritual, mental, emotional, physical, and intellectual perspective have given me tools that have impacted my life. The investment to commit to the program was worth it and I am thankful for a new community to walk alongside in the dating process. "

Michael

"Drop the Hanky has helped me have some meaningful conversations with a few guys, put myself out there, grow and rely on Christ, and remind myself that I am worthy and have a lot of great qualities, even in the midst of potential rejection."

Katie

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Kait + JJ, This is EXACTLY What I need BUT…

I’m worried this may not work for me.

We get you, friend because just a while ago we were in YOUR shoes! We totally understand that it can feel vulnerable and risky to put your heart on the line in dating.

That’s why the School Of Dating is designed to give you ALL the practical tools  your parents, pastor, or best friends haven’t been able to teach you so you can feel confident in approaching your next date with confidence, peace, and ease. 

The School Of Dating Is For You IF…

  • You are truly READY to start dating in a NEW way (no more complaining!)
  • You want to find and attract HIGH CALIBER Christian singles
  • You WANT to get real results and are willing to challenge yourself into doing something completely new and out of your comfort zone
  • You are ready to invest in your dating life to get the thing you MOST desire. 
  • You are ready for an active challenge that WILL yield results
ENROLL today

I Know We Covered A Lot...

But Here Is A SUMMARY of EVERYTHING You Get When You Join The School Of Dating:

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16, 2 Hour small group teaching and Q&A Zoom Sessions (2 PER WEEK for 8 weeks) (VALUE: $4000).

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A Physical Workbook to keep you accountable, stay on track and have afterwards to get the results you’re desiring in dating (VALUE: $500).

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Weekly Texts from Kait and JJ to keep you motivated on your journey (VALUE: $397).

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Accountability & Community Support System (VALUE: $500).

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Your Guide to the Best Questions to Ask on a Date. Fear no more with this SOS question guide that will help you have real, intentional, connected conversations. 

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Texting Scripts. We will give you our tricks to keep the conversation alive and exciting.

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Creative and Connected Date Ideas Manual. AMAZING and CREATIVE date ideas that will increase connection and in turn success of your dating journey.

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Training Sessions with Experts and Master Dating Coaches (to be announced)

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Dating Journal. The clear roadmap on how to meet singles and process all emotions and feelings following a date.

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The Ultimate Online Dating Profile Setup Guide. The EXACT photos to post to attract the quality person you are looking for (no more fish photos!).

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Frequently Asked Questions.

What is the Schedule for this upcoming Program?
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PHASE 1

SESSION 1: Intro to Core Wound, Inner Child/Teen and Reconnecting with Parts of Self - Tuesday October 4th, 5pm-7pm PST

SESSION 2: Attachment Styles - Saturday October 8th, 9am-11am PST

SESSION 3: Core Wound, Mind Body Connection & Managing Emotions-Tuesday October 11th, 5pm-7pm PST

SESSION 4: GODFIDENCE & Healthy Anatomy of a Relationship- Saturday October 15th, 9am-11am PST

SESSION 5: Type, Attraction, & Clarity in Your Values-Tuesday October 18th, 5pm-7pm PST

SESSION 6: Mindset- Saturday October 22nd, 9am-11am PST

BREAK & PHASE 2

SESSION 7: Feminine and Masculine -Tuesday November 1st, 5pm-7pm PST

SESSION 8: Flirting 101-Saturday November 5th, 9am-11am PST

SESSION 9: Online Dating + Dating Challenge-Tuesday November 8th, 5pm-7pm PST

SESSION 10: Pacing in Relationships-Saturday November 12th, 9am-11am PST

SESSION 11: First Dates-Tuesday November 15th, 5pm-7pm PST

SESSION 12: Facing Rejection-Saturday November 19th, 9am-11am PST

BREAK & PHASE 3

SESSION 13: After the First Date, Communication & Managing Expectations-Tuesday November 29th, 5pm-7pm PST

SESSION 14: Long Distance & Dating Hot Seat- Saturday December 3rd, 9am-11am PST

SESSION 15: DTR, Boundaries, and Hard Conversations- Tuesday December 6th, 5pm-7pm PST

SESSION 16: Graduation-Saturday December 10th, 9am-11am PST


Do you offer any Scholarships or Discounts?
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We understand the cost of this program won’t be for everyone, and that’s something we are okay with. 

We believe that when you take the brave move of investing in yourself, you will reap the rewards through more specific RESULTS. If you got a gym membership for free, the reality is you'd likely go for one week, then give up and never meet your fitness goal. But if you paid for 1 on 1 personal training, there’s NO way you’re missing those sessions. You’re also more likely to get MORE out of the things you invest in financially because they resonate deeper with you and you’re more likely to try even harder.

Lastly, truth be told we have worked really hard to make this program as affordable as possible for you.

What if I can’t make one of the live sessions?
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These sessions will be recorded and made available to you within 24 hours. Also please check out the LIVE schedule that we share in advance!

Is this done 1:1 or in a group setting?
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This program is a group setting program.

Will I FOR SURE find “my person” through this program?
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We cannot offer ANY sort of guarantee, but what we CAN offer you is clarity, confidence, courage, and an entire plan and process that will make dating SUCCESSFUL for you.

How do I know this will work for me?
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What we are teaching is exactly what WE have practiced and learned during our dating life that led us to meet one another. This work will help you through the nitty-gritty to truly become a MASTER in your dating life.

That being said, whether this works for you like you want it to is really in your hands. You will get as many results as you put time and effort into making practicing what we are teaching you and processing through the content. But we are confident that if you have a healthy mindset and are willing to truly commit to the process, your dating life will start to transform.

What if something happens and I need to request a refund?
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Due to the nature of the program and the proprietary and exclusive content provided, there are no refunds available. We reserve the right to refuse any refund request.

Is this for WOMEN ONLY? Or can men join too?
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This is a program for MEN AND WOMEN. Come one come all, we LOVE training and teaching men, and you are in good company (JJ will be glad you’re there to even the ratio!)

Is this for Christians only?
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It is not! However, we will talk about Jesus and incorporate biblical principles throughout. We will also incorporate healing prayer and prayer in general into some of our sessions. If that’s something you care to be around, make sure you weigh that before joining!

Who Is This NOT For?
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School Of Dating Is Not For You If…

  • You are not willing to put in the work to get the desire you want
  • You want to continue complaining or remaining stuck in a mindset that no quality singles exist
  • You are not ready to get out of your comfort zone and date in an entirely new way
  • You have never done any work on yourself before this program
What if I have a question that you haven’t answered here?
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You are MORE than welcome to reach out to our team at info@hodpodcast.com and they would be happy to assist you with any questions you have!

It’s Time to Step FULLY into Your REFRESHED Dating Life.

If finding a faith-filled partner is the desire of your heart we’d love to help you fall in love with yourself first, discover wholeness and healing, understand the practical side of dating and relationships, and give you all the TOOLS to get REAL dating results!

enroll today!