• Grant spills on being so nervous before their blind date thanks to mutual friend JD—and, naturally, looking Madi up on Instagram and seeing two million followers. No pressure! 23:03
• Madi’s first impression? Grant’s infectious joy, authentic passion for God, and the way he literally knew everyone at Mi Cocina. 13:27
• The vibes were SO. GOOD. But the second date took a nosedive thanks to Grant’s anxiety, which he bravely owned instead of ghosting or self-sabotaging. 24:04
• Madi saw his courage to be vulnerable as true strength, saying it was the first time she’d really experienced that in a guy. 25:42
• Their journey wasn’t without bumps—there was even a brief breakup featuring a movie premiere and meeting the parents… all in one night! 33:38
• Long distance, public scrutiny, and learning to process both together and with trusted community became the backbone of their relationship.

• Madi and Grant open up about what it’s like to date in the public eye—and why the internet can just be savage. 46:50
• How they battle the temptation to put up walls, defend themselves, or shrink back from who God called them to be.
• Madi: “I’ve had to remind myself literally since Bachelor days: Lord, you are my defender and protector. I don’t have to prove myself.” 53:03
• The importance of keeping honest, wise voices (like friends and mentors) in your corner, not just unintentionally relying on your partner to be your sole comfort or answer. 54:29

• Every relationship, romantic or friendship, has tension and conflict. That’s not a red flag; it’s an invitation for growth. 40:15
• The “honeymoon phase” can be over fast (sometimes 24 hours!) and real love is forged, not found. 42:17
• Process your stuff in community, not just as a couple! Their relationship was basically a “group decision” with trusted, godly voices speaking in. 55:13
• Don’t buy the lie that healing or wholeness are prerequisites for starting a relationship. Being in relationship will always bring up new things you couldn’t anticipate. 21:06

• The infamous pink Puma jumpsuit breakup! May it forever hang framed in the Troutt house! 57:11
• Riding around listening to clean Drake on the first date (“If you didn’t go through a Drake phase, did you even live?”).
• Holding hands again within two hours of breaking up.

• Real talk: It’s okay to be messy, anxious, or unsure. Just don’t run. Community, honesty, and humility are your best friends.
• If you’re getting “picked on” by outsiders, stay close to God’s voice (and keep some wise people in your corner) 48:14
• Humility, humor, and a willingness to get back up after things go sideways are maybe the best markers of a relationship that’s going somewhere real.

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