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The Find Your Person
Challenge- Fall 2025

A 4-Night Conference Experience for Christian Singles to break old dating patterns and prepare for the marriage you’ve been praying for.

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Join us Nov 2-5th, 7:00-8:30 PM CST

Meet the Speakers

Kait & JJ Tomlin

Kait Tomlin is a national best-selling author, speaker, popular relationship coach, and the founder of Heart of Dating. She, along with her husband, JJ, helps thousands of men and women on their journeys through the conversations on the Heart of Dating Podcast, which launched in 2018. Through their ministry, the Tomlin's mission is to empower both men and women to have the courage to own their story, walk in victory, thrive with purpose, and discover clarity and vision in their life and relationships. In Kait's most recent book, Thank You for Rejecting Me: Transform Pain into Purpose and Learn to Fight for Yourself, Kait vulnerably shares how she grew through her deepest, darkest rejections and offers readers the tools to heal from the past, take back their power, and walk in strength, victory, and love into their future. They currently live in Franklin, TN with their daughter Eleanor, and bernedoodle Lovey.

Lisa BEVERE

Lisa Bevere has spent over four decades empowering women to find their identity and purpose. She is a New York Times bestselling author and an internationally known minister. Her books, which include The Fight for Female, Without Rival, Girls with Swords, Lioness Arising, and Strong are in the hands of millions worldwide. Lisa and her husband, John, co-founded Messenger International, an organization committed to developing uncompromising followers of Christ who transform their world. Messenger International has given away over 60 million resources in over 135 languages.

JAMAL MILLER

Jamal Miller is the co-founder of Miller Global Enterprises, now the parent company to widely known brands Married & Young and online programs The One University and Profit in Purpose Academy.
He has  been featured in Forbes, BET, JET magazine, and have been guests on a CBN segment — all in the grand effort to reduce the divorce rate in America. With a team of writers, Married & Young reaches an online audience in the hundreds of thousands, and The One University has graduated over 7,000 students.
Jamal is an Amazon best-selling author of “25 Ways to Prepare for Marriage Other Than Dating,” the CEO of Miller Global Enterprises, and founder of Profit in Purpose. 

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Why This Challenge Will CHANGE YOU!

Still single—and lowkey wondering what’s wrong with you?

You’re not alone. Dating today feels like a minefield of:

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Talking stages that go nowhere

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Unclear intentions, mixed signals, and spiritual confusion

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Overthinking, over-functioning, and wondering if you’re “too much”

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Feeling like there’s no one left who actually wants a godly marriage

But here’s the truth:

You don’t need to date harder. You need to date differently.

That’s why we created this challenge.

Over 4 powerful nights, we’ll help you:

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Break free from patterns that keep you stuck

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Heal from past dating wounds

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Step into clarity, confidence, and spiritual discernment

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Actually position yourself to meet the right kind of person

You’ve prayed. You’ve tried.

Now it’s time to experience a breakthrough.

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"The conference impacted me by giving me more confidence, courage to be more open with my feelings without fear of rejection & hopefulness in dating in general. I also was able to “let go” of a couple things that were keeping me “stuck” in a season of closed singleness instead of an abundant one in Christ. God honors dating for the purpose of marriage and the conference helped me to remember that."

Kay

"I found more confidence in myself. I also learned that I don’t have to walk through my struggles alone or be embarrassed about the things I deal with. Finally, I also learned that God gave me a voice to use, and I can use it to impact others and help them too."

Michelle

"The entire event helped encourage me more than I can really put in to words. I feel like I was getting tired on the journey, and tired is a bad place to be because silly decisions are made in a tired state…the event helped revive me for the next part of the journey, restored some hope and just really was great timing!"

Joyce

"THANK YOU!!! I am so happy to be part of Heart of Dating! I have grown so much from your resources! Kait does a great job of helping singles to pursue both contentment and desire. That is a unique and challenging thing to do, and HOD does it so well!"

Corrie

"I honestly believed that God was punishing me prior to HODC of last year. I was just unhappy, and felt like nobody understood my burden. I have found a community like no other through HOD. This year was no exception. Being there with people who I can relate to, just felt God was breathing new life into me."

Betsy

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What You’ll Learn Each Night

Night 01:

Stop Dating from Anxiety and Trauma

Led by Dating Coaches Kait and JJ Tomlin! Break toxic patterns and reset your heart so you stop settling and start receiving God’s best.

Night 02:

Reset the Story You’re Telling Yourself

Led by best-selling author and speaker Lisa Bevere! Uncover & break the mindsets keeping you stuck and find re-IGNITED HOPE!

Night 03:

Behaviors That Are Repelling the Right People

Led by pastor and speaker Jamal Miller. Stop key behaviors that are subconsciously blocking healthy connection.

Night 04:

Keys to Feminine and Masculine

Led by dating coaches Kait and JJ Tomlin. Get strategic—Discover how God-designed polarity builds attraction—and learn to date in your true design with grace and strength.

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Come early for the
PRE-SHOW party!

Every night at 6:30 PM CST, join HOD Dating Coaches for a fun, laid-back hangout before the main event!

We’ll have:

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Icebreakers + fun questions

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Nightly giveaways

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Live chat with other singles

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Dating games that’ll make you laugh (and maybe blush)

The best part?

You get early access to the community and a chance to win prizes just for showing up!

This challenge is for you if:

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You’re serious about godly marriage—but frustrated with modern dating

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You’ve been ghosted, confused, or disillusioned

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You want to attract better (but don’t want to fake it to find it)

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You know God has more for your love life—and you’re ready for it

This challenge is NOT for you if:

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You want to keep blaming everyone else without looking inward

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You’re content settling or playing it safe

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You’re not ready to grow, heal, and prepare for marriage

Are you ready?

This 4 Night Event is TOTALLY FREE!

Spots are free!!!!

🔥 Over 10,000 Single Christians expected!

🎉 Nightly giveaways + live-only surprises!

💌 Replays available to those who sign up

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Worth $99+