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Get Help From a Dating Coach
Have a specific and unique dating question or situation that you can't figure out with one of our resources?
We used to offer 1:1 coaching but stopped for a season. Well, now you can officially book Kait Tomlin, JJ Tomlin, or one of our other dating coaches, Jayme Vainer, to help you out through your dating season or situation.
So here's the deal...
We get hundreds of very specific dating questions a week… in our DM’s, over emails, and even in real life. We love encouraging people in their journey and helping them find clarity and freedom in their singleness and dating journey. However, we have also reached a point where we are unable to give effective, specific advice via those means. SO! Insert this service.
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We designed this so you can access affordable dating insight that is specific to your situation and experiences.
Maybe you are in a new relationship and have questions about where it is going.
Maybe you don’t feel confident taking the next step in putting yourself out there.
Maybe you just went through a breakup and want specific guidance on how to heal.
Or maybe you need to have a hard and vulnerable conversation with someone and don’t know where to begin.
Whatever it may be in regard to dating and relationships, our coaches would love to empower you with biblical, thoughtful, and practical advice.
Book JJ Tomlin
JJ joined Heart of Dating 2 years ago and has a particular passion for Christian single men.
Get 30 minutes with JJ jam-packed with new vision, encouragement, and advice.
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Book Jayme Vainer
Coach Jayme is 40, a recent Nashville girl and is super passionate about dating healthy. God has given her a beautiful story, a life-changing testimony and gifts to help you date well so you can marry well. She has been a School of Dating coach for the last year and a half!
Book Alana Gibson
Hey friend! I'm Coach Alana, a 26 year old South Carolina girl who’s passionate about helping Christian singles heal, grow, and date from a place of wholeness that will impact generations to come. I’m currently pursuing my master’s in Counseling Psychology and serve behind the scenes at Heart of Dating, where I get to combine my love for people, emotional health, and God-centered relationships. I believe dating can be both fun and meaningful when we show up with self-awareness, curiosity, and faith.
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