Friends, we are THRILLED to launch Heart of Dating's 100th Episode! Over the past 2 and a half years, we are just so blessed to have had so many guests on the show, but even more importantly... we have been blessed with an amazing community! So THANK YOU for all your support!
For our 100th Celebration, we wanted to bring on someone extra special... SO, Kait brings on the author of "The 5 Love Languages"...Dr.Gary Chapman!
Dr. Gary Chapman is an author, speaker, pastor, and counselor! He has a passion for people, and for helping them form lasting relationships. Chapman is a well-known marriage counselor and director of marriage seminars. The 5 Love Languages® is one of Chapman’s most popular titles, topping various bestseller charts for years, selling over thirteen million copies and has been on the New York Times best-sellers list continuously since 2007. Chapman has been directly involved in real-life family counseling for more than 30 years, and his nationally-syndicated radio programs air nationally on Moody Radio Network and over 400 affiliate stations.
On today's Episode Dr.Chapman goes over the 5 love languages and how to navigate them: Touch, Gifts, Quality Time, Acts of Service, and Words of Affirmation! Kait and Dr. Chapman discuss why understanding them is vital in a relationship and how we can develop healthier communication skills by using them!
Could you share a little bit about your work and overview of the 5 love languages?
Is it true that you typically show others love with your own love language?
How do you go about balancing each other’s love languages in a relationship, even if you’re not “good” on showing the other person’s language?
There’s a stigma that sharing your love language needs comes across as needy. Is that true?
Is it common, and do you ever see it happen that your primary love language will shift in different seasons of life?
For single people who have a primary language of physical touch or quality time…. How do we do this, especially through this time of COVID?
Is there a 6th love language you thought about while creating this concept?
Why is understanding languages so important?
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