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Your result:
The Wanderer
aka The Situationship Specialist
You’re magnetic, fun, and know how to keep things interesting. You’re not afraid to put yourself out there — but the idea of locking it all down? That can feel stifling. You love the possibility of love… but the reality of commitment might make you feel trapped or bored. So you flirt, connect, even date for a while — but rarely stay long enough to build something rooted.
You’re not against relationships. In fact, you might even long for one. But if you’re honest, you’re often caught in a loop: sparking something, feeling uncertain, then ghosting or drifting when it loses its thrill. You chase emotional highs — not always emotional health. You say “I’m not ready”… but maybe what you really mean is “I’m not sure I trust love to be worth it.”
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How your heart tends to navigate dating
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Strengths
- Adventurous and magnetic energy
- Open-minded and willing to explore connection
- Charismatic and engaging — people are drawn to you
- Often emotionally self-protective in a way that feels empowering
- Can have great instincts about people — when you slow down enough to listen
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Attachment Leaning
Likely Attachment Style: Avoidant or Fearful-Avoidant
You may desire connection but feel overwhelmed when it gets too real. Your independence is strong, but it can sometimes be a shield to avoid vulnerability or self-confrontation.
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Communication Style
You tend to be fun, flirty, and emotionally expressive — until things get too deep. You may avoid hard conversations or clarity because you don’t want to hurt someone (or lose access to the connection). Ambiguity feels safer than accountability.
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Common Dating Struggles
- Jumping from spark to spark without real depth
- Avoiding conversations about exclusivity or long-term vision
- Keeping multiple people “around” as options
- Ghosting or disappearing when things get serious
- Feeling torn between independence and intimacy
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Growth Opportunities
- Facing the root fears that drive your hesitation to commit
- Learning to sit with discomfort instead of escaping it
- Moving from emotional impulsivity to spiritual intentionality
- Asking God for vision, not just vibes
- Trusting that intimacy doesn’t mean losing yourself — it means expanding your capacity for love
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Encouragement + Truth
God’s plan for your heart is not casual connection with zero clarity. He doesn’t want you stuck in patterns of passivity or indecision. The truth is: you're not too much — you just haven’t felt emotionally safe enough to be fully known. Real connection isn’t the end of your freedom… it’s the beginning of your transformation.
“Choose this day whom you will serve… But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” — Joshua 24:15
You’re not called to float through dating — you’re called to choose with courage.
Next Step:
If your dating life feels like a revolving door of vibes, it’s time to get rooted in vision. You were made for connection with depth, not confusion.
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