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Your result:
The Hopeless Romantic
aka The Love at First Swipe
You’re a dreamer, a feeler, and a full-sender when it comes to love. You want the story — the pursuit, the connection, the spark. You believe in big, beautiful, God-ordained relationships, and you’re not afraid to hope for one with your whole heart.
You fall fast, attach deeply, and sometimes confuse chemistry with compatibility. When someone shows interest, it’s easy for your heart to run ahead of your discernment. You mean well — you just tend to build the castle before confirming you’re on solid ground.
You long to be chosen, seen, and swept up in something meaningful. But deep love requires more than a feeling — it requires pacing, wisdom, and emotional safety.
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How your heart tends to navigate dating
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Strengths
- Passionate and emotionally open
- Brave in the face of vulnerability
- Deeply hopeful and full of belief
- Often quick to forgive and show grace
- Makes people feel special and pursued
02
Attachment Leaning
Likely Attachment Style: Anxious
You may attach quickly and seek validation early in the connection. When someone pulls back, it can trigger fears of being unwanted or not enough.
03
Communication Style
You’re expressive, affirming, and open — sometimes too soon. You tend to be generous with your emotions and eager to connect deeply. When things feel off, you may spiral internally or seek reassurance externally instead of pausing and observing.
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Common Dating Struggles
- Getting emotionally attached too quickly
- Mistaking intensity for intimacy
- Feeling crushed when someone pulls away or ghosts
- Struggling to discern between connection and chemistry
- Idealizing people before truly knowing them
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Growth Opportunities
- Learning to slow down and let consistency build trust
- Staying grounded in your worth — not someone’s attention
- Asking who someone is before deciding what they mean to you
- Recognizing that real love includes peace, not just passion
- Letting God fill the ache before you look to someone else to fix it
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Encouragement + Truth
Your heart is beautiful — and your longing for love is not a flaw. But true, lasting love requires more than immediate connection. God cares deeply about your desire for intimacy, but He also invites you to let Him pace your story. You don’t have to make something happen — you just have to be present, wise, and surrendered.
“Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life.” — Proverbs 13:12
It’s okay to hope — but anchor your hope in the right hands.
Next Step:
It’s time to slow down, breathe, and date with more peace and discernment — without losing your heart in the process.
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