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How to Pursue a Woman

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Kait Tomlin

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What does it mean to be in pursuit of a woman?

Let me start by getting this out of the way… men, I want this to be encouraging to you. So first things first, the number one MOST important ingredient about successfully pursuing a woman is this…It is NOT about YOU. If you step out into the dating world and you want to truly pursue your female counterpart properly,  you have to surrender this idea of “what about me…” This is HUGE when you’re trying to make your way from the dating stage into a more serious relationship. But I’m not going to lie… it takes a lot of work. 

What does it look like to be in pursuit of a woman?

Men, here is some of our biggest advice on how to level up your dating game:

Step #1: Call it a DATE and not HANG OUT! You may not think this is important but it is. Be clear about what you want so she’s not left to question or be confused about your intentions.
Step #2 - The date should be communicated at least 24 hours in advance, NOT the morning of! One word. Communication. Fellas, remember that ladies take a little longer to prepare for a date than you do… they need their time! Don’t come off like this is a last-minute option just because you don’t have anything else to do.
Step #3 - Deliver - be thoughtful and focused on her! This date is about HER. You asked for her time, she’s graciously giving it to you… make sure it COUNTS!
Step #4 - Own the follow-up and direction!! Follow up in a timely manner, don’t leave her guessing how the date went. Whether you enjoyed the date or not, don’t leave her in the dark and communicate your feelings.

Why should you pursue a woman?

You may think it seems like a lot of work BUT let me tell you… it’s worth it. The type of woman that you want to spend the rest of your life with will want to be pursued in this way.

Ladies… some encouragement for you… 

I’m always hearing - where are all the great Christian men who date like this? I want you to know that they DO exist… But you have to believe that they exist. You have to place yourself in circles and communities where these men exist like, don’t be afraid to get outside of your comfort zone and put yourself out there. The reality is that these men do exist, they just have to grow into some of this behavior. 

If you want more practical and biblical advice on this, make sure you listen to episode 165 of the podcast where JJ & I walk you through how to pursue a woman and the true why behind it.

Men, no matter how great you THINK you are at dating... I am challenging you to level up! If you have a lady in mind and you’re ready to start pursuing, check out our FREE “Men’s Guide to a Great Date”!!

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