Engagement Story

Kait & JJ talk about their engagement day, sharing all things before the day, planning, and day of engagement.

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Before The Day

Planning

The Day Of

Before The Day

Kait’s Pro Tip: ALWAYS TELL YOUR FRIENDS WHAT YOU LIKE. A smart man will consult them>>>>JJ Consulted Kait’s Friends
We DID go ring shopping a few months beforehand. JJ designed the ring himself. Shoutout to BRILLIANT EARTH- we are all about lab grown diamonds.
JJ made a comment IN december to Kait “It would probably be easiest if we were engaged by Conference.” <<< KAIT DID NOT FORGET THIS
To not RUIN the surprise but still make sure Kait had her nails done- JJ added 4 times to Kait’s calendar for NAILS. It could happen anytime in the 1-2 weeks post nails.

Planning

Started with socializing to a SELECT FEW
CORE of ENGAGEMENT is THOUGHTFULNESS - What do they love?? Where do they love?? What are the things that I can do to level and make this EXTRA thoughtful!!!

The Day Of

Kait had SLIGHT suspicions because it was the WEEK before conference, but JJ was SO chill she had NO idea
DECOYS - Kristen asked me to go to Club 33 at disney- HELLO AMAZING. JJ acted all BUMMED when he found out HAHAHA. JJ asked Kait to GOLF that saturday afternoon
Kait went to breakfast with a girlfriend that morning…
Meanwhile JJ went to Kait’s

Kait Warman

Kait Warman is a best-selling author, speaker, popular relationship coach, and the founder of Heart of Dating. She helps thousands of men and women on their journeys through the conversations on the Heart of Dating Podcast, which launched in 2018.

Through her ministry, Kait’s mission is to empower both men and women to have the courage to own their story, walk in victory, thrive with purpose, and discover clarity and vision in their life and relationships. In her new book, Thank You for Rejecting Me: Transform Pain into Purpose and Learn to Fight for Yourself, Kait vulnerably shares how she grew through her deepest, darkest rejections and offers readers the tools to heal from the past, take back their power, and walk in strength, victory, and love into their future. Kait currently lives in the Los Angeles area and loves sunshine, walks, Jesus, and lip syncing to Celine Dion.

JJ Tomlin

JJ Tomlin is a missionary kid born in Belgium, originally from Tennessee, and currently residing in the OC. He currently works in Gaming/E-Commerce, enjoys watching his Tennessee Titans on Sundays with his Goldendoodle Teddy and loves working with Christian men to raise the bar in singleness and dating.

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