Number one, what’s your objective? Do you want to start a conversation? Do you want to ask them out? Do you want to have them ask you out? A good objective is to start a conversation and them and within 15 DM’s back and forth you’re asking her out on a date. Maybe it’s facetime, or a zoom date. The big thing here is to make her feel as safe and comfortable as possible. The most masculine way to ask her out is to be confident, own it. THEN accompany it with a thoughtful, empathetic follow up, to make her feel comfortable and accommodate her. This is how you can go above and beyond in your dating life men! 

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Other than this, the world is your oyster. Don’t be someone else, be YOU! You can be fun, straightforward, witty, etc. whatever is most TRUE to you and your personality. 

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You can’t say the wrong thing to the right person. 

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There’s a data scientist that challenged himself to ask people out and try to get the best question to ask. The most successful pickup line was “Hey, how’s your day going?” If they’re interested in you, they will respond. It doesn’t really matter how creative, funny, or witty you are. 

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Reminder that we go deeper into this with School of Dating. We have TEXTING SCRIPTS that are legit the best thing EVER. The texting scripts work!