On today’s men’s minisode JJ unpacks a story as old as time, she’s just not that into you, what now?
Men Are Built to Pursue
The one we’ll start with is, she’s just not that into you, and you’re friends!
She is SOMEWHAT interested in you.
She's SUPPOSED to be interested in you, but she's not.
Is it a red flag or a deal breaker if she’s just not that into you?
What’s up guys?! We’re here with our LAST men’s minisode of our red flags season! You may have seen the title and had flashbacks to the early 2000s movie, He’s Just Not That Into You. Good hahaha. We have our own twist today on that, She’s Just Not That Into You! This episode is for a GUY who’s in a situation where she’s just not that into you. Guess what? We’re here for you! We’ve ALL been in this situation before, let’s talk about it!
Men are built to pursue, that’s how God made you! Just like in sales though, you’re going to get some soft no’s, some hard no’s and some unwritten no’s. We have to discern and see if this is something you should follow up on or not.
In your masculine energy, you’re built to be proactive, make the first move, risk first, and be vulnerable first. You’re wired to chase, to initiate, and we see this reflected biblically in the system of marriage. Men choose and pursue the bride. We see this all the way back in Genesis, woman is derived from man, man seeks after the woman.
Are there exceptions? Sure, if you want to break into a man’s house and creepily wake him up (shout out to our girl Ruth). A more modern version of this is dropping the hanky! This is okay! We don’t see this as the woman pursuing the man.
What is the opposite of this pursuit? What are we doing when we’re acting out of flesh and falling out of that design? The achilles heel of the masculine is Genesis 3:16, Adam WATCHED, he was PASSIVE, he didn’t ACT!
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