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Kait talks about ghosting, how to handle it, and why we should not do it.
How You Turn Someone Down
What to Say When You Are Turning Someone Down
How to Handle Ghosting
First, you DON’T need to know if that person is your spouse! Don’t put so much pressure on it!
Second, you DON’T have to be crazy attracted to them to say yes to a date!
SAY YES MORE! Be more open.
Keep your dates short, 90 minutes is the sweet spot. ALSO, try to give it at least 3 dates before deciding if it’s a yes or no. Of course, there are exceptions to this, but for the most part try to give it more than one date.
Be clear, honest, and intentional in your words in the way you turn someone down. Try to do this in person if you can, if not at least do a phone call.
You also can still be friends with that person and it doesn’t have to be awkward!
Never ghost someone, just don’t do it!!
Ghosting is closely tied to that person’s emotional maturity…whew. AND it’s much more about THEM than it is about YOU.
Ghosting isn’t respectful or honoring, we have to get better at this. Leave people better than you found them!
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Kait Tomlin is a best-selling author, speaker, popular relationship coach, and the founder of Heart of Dating. She helps thousands of men and women on their journeys through the conversations on the Heart of Dating Podcast, which launched in 2018.
Through her ministry, Kait’s mission is to empower both men and women to have the courage to own their story, walk in victory, thrive with purpose, and discover clarity and vision in their life and relationships. In her new book, Thank You for Rejecting Me: Transform Pain into Purpose and Learn to Fight for Yourself, Kait vulnerably shares how she grew through her deepest, darkest rejections and offers readers the tools to heal from the past, take back their power, and walk in strength, victory, and love into their future. Kait currently lives in the Los Angeles area with her husband JJ and their pups Lovey and Teddy. She loves sunshine, walks, Jesus, and lip syncing to Celine Dion.
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