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Don’t Date for Marriage

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Jayme Vainer

Today we're diving into dating history and chatting with Jayme Vainer about her switch from hyper-attachment to casual dating!

Introduction

Hey HOD fam! We're back and ready to bring you more dating hot takes with this episode featuring our girl, Jayme Vainer. We’re jumping into the history of dating, the ins and outs of dating, and Jayme’s transformative 90-day dating challenge. Let’s get into it!

Courtship and Parental Involvement

We kick things off talking about courtship and how parents and organizations influence it. Dating started picking up in the late 19th and early 20th centuries with women’s independence, and fun fact—it had some sketchy beginnings!

Evolution of Dating

Next, we chat about dating in the 1950s and 1960s and its evolution into the egalitarian concept we have today. The limited dating pool and tight community bonds are discussed, plus why diving in too soon can lead to heartache.

Courtship vs. Dating

Let’s break down courtship versus dating. Jayme shares her mixed feelings about the strict rules of "courting." We stress the importance of not rushing things and why sometimes it’s best to take it slow.

The 90-Day Dating Challenge

Jayme spills on her 90-day dating challenge. With a focus on kindness and honesty—minus the exclusivity—she learned to avoid red flags and find genuinely available men. It’s been a total game-changer!

Casual Dating Benefits

We dive into the perks of casual dating. Jayme’s relaxed approach has brought joy and clarity into her dating life. We talk about taking things one step at a time and really getting to know someone first.

Communicating and Leaving People Better

Communication is crucial. We discuss how to honor and respect the people we date and the importance of leaving them better than we found them. Solid advice all around!

The Importance of Wisdom and Intention

Making wise decisions in dating is key. We share stories about the dangers of committing too quickly and why rushing into marriage thoughts can be a pitfall.

Final Thoughts

Jayme’s casual dating approach has been a lifestyle upgrade. We wrap up by encouraging everyone to assess their emotional and spiritual readiness before diving into serious relationships.

Thanks for tuning in, HOD fam! Keep your hearts open and your minds curious. Catch you next time!

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Jayme Vainer

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Jayme is an Orange County wedding planner and a SOD dating coach.  Her passion is to provide a stress-free wedding planning process along with curating the perfect design for the couple’s big day. She also is on fire about teaching the material, tools and values learned in School of Dating.  She wants to help empower Christian singles to date healthily so they can marry healthily. Her overall dream is to be a generation change, both in her family and for her generation.

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