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MM: You Always Marry The Wrong One

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JJ Tomlin

Today, JJ Tomlin busts the myth of the "right one" and dives deep into love and forgiveness!

Introduction

Hey HOD fam! We're diving into another spicy episode of Season 13 with a topic that'll get you thinking: "You Always Marry the Wrong One." JJ Tomlin is here to debunk the myth of finding the perfect partner. Ready for some real talk? Let’s jump in!

You Always Marry the Wrong One

JJ starts with a funny story about a guy who dumped a woman because she had large hands and quirky behavior. It's a perfect setup to discuss how we get too picky and judgmental, especially on dating apps.

JJ's Personal Reflection

JJ opens up about his struggles with being overly critical in dating, reminding us to see the beauty in people rather than focusing on tiny flaws.

Unrealistic Expectations in Relationships

JJ addresses how society's unrealistic expectations set us up for disappointment. He's here to say that love and marriage require effort, transformation, and sacrifice—much like the gospel.

Self-Reflection and Apology

JJ shares his plan to apologize to his wife for his selfishness, highlighting the importance of owning our flaws and committing to growth.

Marrying the Wrong One?

JJ evaluates the idea that "you always marry the wrong one." Instead of constantly reevaluating your partner, focus on building love and becoming the right kind of person.

Love, Forgiveness, and Sacrifice

Marriage is about choosing to love and forgive repeatedly, even when it’s hard. JJ ties this to absorbing debts and bringing pain to Jesus for healing.

Cultural Context of Marriage

JJ compares arranged marriages (low divorce rate) to those based on free choice, questioning modern pickiness in relationships.

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JJ Tomlin

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JJ Tomlin is a missionary kid born in Belgium, originally from Tennessee, and currently residing in the OC. He currently works in Gaming/E-Commerce, enjoys watching his Tennessee Titans on Sundays with his Goldendoodle Teddy and loves working with Christian men to raise the bar in singleness and dating.


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