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Kait & JJ: How We Met

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Kait Warman & JJ Tomlin

Kait Warman & JJ Tomlin

We’re so excited to share with you all a very special series here at the Heart of Dating! For those of you who have been following along… We are so excited to share that our founder, Kait Warman, is now engaged! She is ready to tell her story of how her and her Fiance JJ Tomlin met, dated, and grew as a couple!

Today, Kait & JJ’s talk all about how they MET and about the realities and hardships of a long distance dating life.

How did JJ and Kait meet?

  • Kait was speaking at a single-girl conference event at Delight ministries!
  • Three bachelors were invited to be set for a blind date, and JJ was one of them! 
  • JJ was attracted by Kait’s humility, vulnerability and redemption in Christ on the call and decided he wanted to pursue her.
  • JJ finds Kait as the woman he can run the triangle with. (God at the top of the triangle and the partners down on each side.)
  • JJ is actually 5 years younger than Kait… when they met, he had platinum hair and was not Kait’s “type” at all… but God had other plans in mind!
  • Kait sensed that JJ was shameless (in a good way) and is not trying to impress anyone and through her openness to dating him… she started to fall for him!
  • They tell their first date story… and how Kait actually canceled it!

Were JJ’s intentions coming on strong with Kait?

  • JJ wants to pursue Kait as best as possible at every opportunity available.
  • When JJ says showing up as best as possible he meant attitude, effort, planning, and thoughtfulness.
  • A huge tip for guys: Take note and tap in the thoughtfulness.
  • Thoughtfulness goes a long way in a woman’s heart. - JJ

How important is style to JJ?

  • JJ knows his style and is just having fun with dyeing his hair. 
  • He is living his bachelor life to the fullest and not trying to impress a girl.
  • To guys, Try a little bit on how you dress.

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Kait Warman

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Kait Warman is a best-selling author, speaker, popular relationship coach, and the founder of Heart of Dating. She helps thousands of men and women on their journeys through the conversations on the Heart of Dating Podcast, which launched in 2018. 

Through her ministry, Kait’s mission is to empower both men and women to have the courage to own their story, walk in victory, thrive with purpose, and discover clarity and vision in their life and relationships. In her new book, Thank You for Rejecting Me: Transform Pain into Purpose and Learn to Fight for Yourself, Kait vulnerably shares how she grew through her deepest, darkest rejections and offers readers the tools to heal from the past, take back their power, and walk in strength, victory, and love into their future. Kait currently lives in the Los Angeles area and loves sunshine, walks, Jesus, and lip syncing to Celine Dion.

JJ Tomlin

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JJ Tomlin is a missionary kid born in Belgium, originally from Tennessee, and currently residing in the OC. He currently works in Gaming/E-Commerce, enjoys watching his Tennessee Titans on Sundays with his Goldendoodle Teddy and loves working with Christian men to raise the bar in singleness and dating.


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