JJ tackles the topic of a female being too needy or emotional in a dating relationship and the red flags you can spot.
Let’s dive in!
Is there such thing as too emotional? Too need in DATING?
Signs that are definitely a red flag, and potentially dealbreakers…
Heyyy fellas welcome back to another mini mansode in our season on red flags! Red flags and deal breakers are different. Red flags are where you need to take a pause and gather more information. We’re talking about if she’s too needy or emotional…this is an episode for our men, but it can be applied the other way too. We’re pumped to jump into this week’s episode!
This is one of the core conflicts we see in any traditional heterosexual relationship between man and woman. There have been entiere books written on this, and I think we are starting to see this is not just emotional women vs. emotioanl suppressed men. Sometimes we see it the other way too.
Today JJ has a great story for you all that is really going to speak to some situations where there is trauma and severe emotional reactions.
A little discalimer first though, the reality is that JJ cannot give you an exhaustive answer on weather or not she is too emotional. He can give warnings and advice but at the end of the day, you have to decide is this person worth the time, energy, love, patience, and kindness as a romantic investment. This is really important, because everybody is inherently created in God’s image is worth something simply because they exist. They are important because they are a human. PERIOD. I don’t care who they are, what they have done, who they aren’t, they hold VALUE. Jesus alludes to this when he talks about if you have hated in your heart it is the same as committing murder. What he really means here is that if you have regarded somebody as unimportant, you have planted the same seed as one who murders. You have deemed one in God’s image as unimportant.
This is a unique, romantic sitaution as in this is someone you are evaluating in a martial lens as a potential marriage partner.
I’ll be honest with you guys though, we see a lot of DUDES who want the girl who is super chill, fun, low maintenance, emotionally easy, always kind, loves football, let’s him do whatever he wants, she always communicates perfectly. Let me just tell you something…that is your DISNEY FAIRYTALE PRINCESS who does NOT exist. The sooner you realize that, the BETTER! Because then you can come to terms with reality and begin to prepare to love your female spouse with EMPATHY!
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