JJ explains the signs someone may be stuck on their ex and what would be considered a red flag and what would be considered a dealbreaker.
How do you know if they are stuck on their ex… and is it a red flag if they are? Is it a deal breaker???
Here are some other things to watch out for…
If you are dating someone, and you think they are stuck on their ex, you have to ask yourself this question. Is this a red flag for me or is this a dealbreaker?
Welcome back Heart of Dating Men to a minisode just for YOU! We’re continuing our season on RED FLAGS and we don’t have many left for this. We want more men to get this content so we can see more change in the Christian dating sphere. One way you can help with that is joining our Patreon! Anyway, this week we’re talking about about if she’s stuck on her ex…dun dun dun!!!
JJ remembers so clearly being on a date with a young lady that he was attracted to, and he remembers it taking an HOUR before he realized that the girl was 100% stuck on her ex. AND guess what?! He kept dating her and it was actually HER who had to walk away from JJ. He should’ve been the one leading and proactively walked away when he realized she was stuck on her ex. If he had been dating from a healthier place and even others focused, and leaving them better than he found them, he would’ve walked away because he would’ve been able to say…”Man, I really want to date her but the RIGHT thing to do, the most KIND thing to do, and the most LOVING thing to do for HER is to walk away.” Because she is NOT ready to be in a relationship.
The problem is that it’s really easy to hear and even know that you should walk away, but we don’t. WHY?
There are so many answers that can be here but one that is simple that you may not be thinking of is, you think you need to help God. Put another way, you think YOUR plan and what YOU want is BETTER than God’s.
Dr. Therese talks about handling trauma and how that can come back up in dating. She also discusses overcoming anxiety in a dating scenario.
How can you pray for your future spouse? What is the best thing you can pray for your future relationship? What is the prayer that changed my life?
Carlos discusses the fear of failure in a relationship and in life and discusses breaking down lies that hold you back.
Elisabeth and Peter go over some tendencies each enneagram type have in dating.
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